Many people have this kind of entanglement. Online dating feels good, but when it comes to real-life, everything is different. You can't find the good feeling on the Internet at all. There must be many people who encounter this kind of situation.
The year 2020 is quite special. If you can't have a blind date or attend a party, then we might as well go online dating apps and dating sites. After the epidemic is over, we can still hold hands in real life. Wouldn't it like killing two birds with one stone?
So, there is a problem here, how should online dating come to life? In other words, how can online dating smoothly transition to real life?
In fact, regarding this issue, we might as well firstly think about the advantages and disadvantages of online dating, and then launch a series of countermeasures against these advantages and disadvantages, and then there will be a stable emergence.
The advantages of online dating are basically as follows. First, perfect, romantic, warm, considerate, prompt, and timely. Second, distance generates emotions. Third, the sense of mystery makes people particularly yearning.
The shortcomings of online dating are as follows. First, there is a lack of practical verification. Second, there is no personal experience of face-to-face contact. Third, the understanding for each other is not comprehensive enough. After all, you can only know things what the other party wants you to know and this is the most confusing. So how to meetup with your online dating match? Here are some tips for you.
Regardless of online dating or real-life relationships, don't expect too much from it. Especially at the beginning, be sure to be calm and sensible.
Maintain self-cultivation
In online dating, chat is essential. Of course, there are also voice and video chat, etc. The emotions in the virtual world lacks the authenticity in real life, but it also has another kind of beauty, that is distance and sense of propriety, self-cultivation and politeness, even if the other party is lying sloppily on the bed at this moment, but the message received is still warm and considerate. This is the difference.
If you are going to meetup, please be sure to maintain a sense of self-cultivation. Be consistent with who you are when you are chatting online. Stick to the politeness and behavior so that the other person will feel that you are the same out from within. No routine or scheming, let alone the performance and disguise.
